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weekly dispatches by maude® on modern intimacy through the arts, culture, science, and relationships.

MODERN INTIMACY™
How to elevate the thirst trap.
Culture
How to elevate the thirst trap.

Consider this a crash course in borrowing their best tricks, no professional camera required.

the strangest gifts people have given for love.
Culture
the strangest gifts people have given for love.

From locks of hair to carved whale teeth, romance has always been a little weird.

Is Gift-Giving A Turn On?
dating
Is Gift-Giving A Turn On?

Our most seasonal love language.

How To Maintain Intimacy With Your Partner.
Relationships
How To Maintain Intimacy With Your Partner.

What to do when sparks fade.

maudern movies: love at first fright.
Film
maudern movies: love at first fright.

Whether it’s Gothic romance, supernatural obsession, or a dangerous attraction that refuses to let go, these films explore what happens when desire gets a little frightening.

the importance of eye contact.
Relationships
the importance of eye contact.

A short lesson in vulnerability. 

Delayed Gratification: The Erotics of Waiting
Relationships
Delayed Gratification: The Erotics of Waiting

A deep dive into why slowing down might just be the key to better intimacy—and how waiting can make everything feel more electric.

the erotic appeal of competition.
Relationships
the erotic appeal of competition.

Some of the best chemistry comes with a little friction.

why certain people are hard to forget.
sex education
why certain people are hard to forget.

Sometimes, the most memorable part of an encounter is the thing that hasn't happened yet.

Why Someone’s Scent Can Make You Want Them.
sex education
Why Someone’s Scent Can Make You Want Them.

The science of attraction, the power of a familiar T-shirt, and why chemistry isn't always a metaphor.

the art of the fall date.
dating
the art of the fall date.

There’s a reason fall feels like a season for romance.

maudern movies: for cozy chemistry.
Film
maudern movies: for cozy chemistry.

Because cuffing season deserves a proper watchlist.

the strange history of erotic objects.
Design
the strange history of erotic objects.

Humans have never been particularly good at keeping desire abstract.

the first-date questions that actually tell you something.
the first-date questions that actually tell you something.

How to get beyond “what do you do?”

A Brief History Of The “Third-Date Rule.”
dating
A Brief History Of The “Third-Date Rule.”

Does sex hit different on date #3?

How To Approach Dating As A Couple.
Relationships
How To Approach Dating As A Couple.

Playing the field, as partners

Water-Based vs. Silicone Lube
sex education
Water-Based vs. Silicone Lube

A practical guide to choosing shine aloe or shine silicone, from easy cleanup and silicone-toy compatibility to long-lasting lubrication in water.

the side effect of cuffing season
Culture
the side effect of cuffing season

Sledging describes getting into a relationship during the winter months with the intention of ending it once spring arrives. It’s cuffing season, essentially, with a breakup already penciled into t...

the psychology of dating apps.
Relationships
the psychology of dating apps.

How they've been messing with our minds all this time.

the art of the bar conversation.
dating
the art of the bar conversation.

And yes, it begins with tact.

The Sexiest Scent Notes From Around the World.
Culture
The Sexiest Scent Notes From Around the World.

Long before fragrance came in a bottle, smelling good was already a form of social currency.

the final frontier of wellness.
In Partnership with
Culture
the final frontier of wellness.

For a category that has historically been kept behind closed doors, sexual wellness is having a very public moment. It is showing up in wellness conversations, beauty routines, and increasingly, th...

love in zero gravity.
Film
love in zero gravity.

Our list of space movies to get your rocket launched.

How Does The Moon Impact Your Sex Life?
Science
How Does The Moon Impact Your Sex Life?

Lust & lunar cycles, explained.

It’s time to revisit cuffing season.
dating
It’s time to revisit cuffing season.

Is there actually a best time to meet your match?

is the fall equinox the sexiest time of year?
Relationships
is the fall equinox the sexiest time of year?

The falling leaves may just usher in your sexiest era yet.

the history of eroticism in fashion.
Design
the history of eroticism in fashion.

From corsets to cutouts, fashion has always known how to tease.

sex in space.
Science
sex in space.

The mechanics of interstellar intercourse.

Why Are We Attracted To Red Lips?
Culture
Why Are We Attracted To Red Lips?

  Breaking down the allure of a rouge pout. 

Virtual reality and the future of intimacy.
Culture
Virtual reality and the future of intimacy.

The pros and cons of tech turned intimate.