Because sexuality, intimacy, and identity aren’t static—and neither is learning.
We’re often taught that sex education is something you get once, tucked into an awkward school semester or a rushed conversation, and then never revisit. But for most people, that first (and often only) lesson didn’t go far enough—and didn’t reflect real life.
The truth is: our understanding of sex, bodies, relationships, and ourselves keeps evolving. And so should the information we have access to.
Real sex ed isn’t just about puberty or pregnancy. It’s about pleasure, communication, consent, and care. It’s about navigating changes—in your body, your partnerships, your identity—and having the knowledge and tools to do so with confidence and agency.
Ten things you’ll need to do for the rest of your life (whether or not anyone ever taught you):
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Advocate for your own pleasure.
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Ask better questions in bed—and out of it.
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Read the label. (On everything, from lube to relationships.)
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Talk about boundaries.
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Learn how your body changes—at every age.
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Figure out what feels good, then change your mind.
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Say “no” when you mean it, and “yes” when you mean it.
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Choose partners who listen.
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Know your rights.
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Keep learning, because nothing about sex—or life—is one-size-fits-all.
That’s why maude’s giveback partner, Advocates for Youth, has spent over 40 years working to expand access to inclusive, accurate, and empowering sex education. Their work centers youth leadership, reproductive justice, and the idea that everyone—regardless of age, background, or identity—deserves honest information and support.
From pushing for policy change to training a new generation of advocates, they’re ensuring that sex ed is treated not as a one-time requirement, but as a lifelong resource.
Because when we make space to learn more, we open the door to healthier, more connected lives.
