theessentials

The internet's best sex advice.

Doms, Subs, and Sub-Reddits.

intimacy across language barriers.

Recommendations for foreign tongues.

the sexuality test designed to disprove astrology.

Fake psychics, astrology, and a universal sexual truth.

is lesbian bed death real? is lesbian bed death real?

is lesbian bed death real?

A cliché, from literature to Hollywood, examined. 

is lesbian bed death real?

A cliché, from literature to Hollywood, examined. 

what we can learn from polyamory.

Dos, don'ts, and opening things up.

Can music give you an orgasm?

How climactic can the right high note be?

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what makes cruise ships so sexy?

Unpacking romance on the open seas.

cultural history of pubic hair. cultural history of pubic hair.

cultural history of pubic hair.

So where did our wax on, wax off mentality come from?

cultural history of pubic hair.

So where did our wax on, wax off mentality come from?

what is the male g-spot? what is the male g-spot?

what is the male g-spot?

Everything you need to know about the underrated erogenous zone.

what is the male g-spot?

Everything you need to know about the underrated erogenous zone.

can you actually feel your partner’s orgasms?

Addressing the age-old, oft-posed query: “Did you come?”

what is a sex therapist? what is a sex therapist?

what is a sex therapist?

Your sexual wellbeing is an essential part of wellness overall.

what is a sex therapist?

Your sexual wellbeing is an essential part of wellness overall.

a history of queer printed erotica.

Mags and their digital descendants.

at what age are people having the most sex?

Sex recessions and the generational divide, examined.