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Jina.

jina.

As a part of our maudern people campaign, we asked New York based-founder and mom Jina Kim for insights on modern intimacy in a time of mandated isolation.

Name: 

Jina Kim

What is your relationship status? 
Marriedwe’ve been together 13 years, married for 6 of them.

With social distancing & quarantine, how has human contact changed for you?
As this period of quarantine continues, I realize how much I love and need human contact. In the first few weeks of social distancing, I really valued the quiet and reveled in being in a bubble—especially grateful to be able to stay home and spend time with my husband and little toddler. As the weeks progress, I’m really missing the company and companionship of my friends and even the strangers I encounter every day in NYC. I’ve been filling the void with tons of facetime and zoom dates. 

We are both constantly in work or parent mode so finding intimacy for just the two of us can be a bit challenging. But we’ve been making the effort to “turn off” and just enjoy one another without the distractions of work.


How do you make time for intimacy? 
We are both constantly in work or parent mode so finding intimacy for just the two of us can be a bit challenging. But we’ve been making the effort to “turn off” and just enjoy one another without the distractions of work. Simple things like a quiet dinner or watching a movie after our son goes to bed go a long way. Also, having a toddler in the house means we need to find moments of intimacy as a family of 3. We’ve really cherished walks through Prospect Park and just being in each other’s presence fully.

How has your perspective on your home/space changed?
Previously, home has always been an “escape” from work. It was so simple to separate the two spaces. Working from home, it’s become easier to fall into the trip of working 24/7; so work, being a wife, being a mom all bleed into each other. It’s been a challenge to juggle everything and have a comfortable work-life balance. I’ve been remedying this by being more disciplined about separating spaces at home where work-brain is not allowed like the dining table, bathroom and bedroom—all of which have become a place of refuge.