stay#Size_1 fl. oz.
stay#Size_1 fl. oz.
stay#Size_1 fl. oz.
stay#Size_1 fl. oz.
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Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars
48 Reviews

stay
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desensitizing spray

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An effective and absorbent formula, our desensitizing spray helps prevent premature ejaculation. Stay is formulated with lidocaine 10%, a quick-drying local anesthetic, to make the male genital area less sensitive. Stay is compatible with latex and polyisoprene condoms, lubricants, and devices.

Only available in the US
  • sulfate- and silicone-free

    sulfate- and silicone-free

  • paraben-free

    paraben-free

  • vegan-friendly

    vegan-friendly

  • fragrance-free

    fragrance-free

  • up to 125 uses per bottle

    up to 125 uses per bottle

  • FDA-licensed as an OTC product

    FDA-licensed as an OTC product

details

formula

Stay contains lidocaine 10%, an effective concentration of a local anesthetic that absorbs quickly into the skin, making the genital area less sensitive. Lidocaine is typically more effective than benzocaine topicals, and is less likely to cause sensitization or allergic response.

product testing

We prioritize rigorous product testing to confirm the absence of harmful bacteria and substances. Stay is FDA Licensed as an OTC product, meaning it has been tested to confirm quality and safety.

manufacturing

Made in the USA.

ingredients

Active Ingredients: Lidocaine 10%

Inactive Ingredients: Water (Aqua), Glycerin, SD Alcohol 40 B, Phenoxyethanol, Red 40

Not recommended for use by those with a history of allergies to any ingredients. Do not use if you or your partner is allergic or sensitive to local anesthetics. 

usage

  • Apply 3 or more sprays to the head and shaft of the penis before intercourse, or use as directed by a doctor. Always use the minimum amount effective for you. Do not exceed 10 sprays. Allow 5-15 minutes to dry completely prior to intercourse. Allow full dry time before use with a lubricant, as well. Wash hands and area of application after use.

  • Do not exceed 20 sprays in 24 hours. Do not use if you or your partner is allergic or sensitive to local anesthetics. For external use only. Avoid contact with eyes and nostrils. Do not inhale. Do not use on broken or inflamed skin. Discontinue use if irritation occurs. Keep out of reach of children.

    Ask Doctor If: Your partner is pregnant, if you have or had any liver or kidney problems, or if you are taking any prescribed drugs. Avoid use during STI or STD outbreaks, as this may cause irritation.

  • Store stay in a cool, dry place and out of direct light.

faqs

what does stay do and how long will the effects last?

Stay is a male genital desensitizer, which may be helpful for those who experience premature ejaculation. Using stay creates a temporary numbing sensation that helps to prolong time until ejaculation. The effects will vary from person to person, but effects can be expected to last for approximately 45 minutes.

why is stay not recommended for some people?

Stay is not recommended for people who may experience sensitivity with or are allergic to local anesthetics, or any of the ingredients in the formula. Stay should not be used if a partner experiences sensitivity with or allergic responses to local anesthetic or ingredients in the formula.

can I use stay with a lubricant?

Stay is safe for use with lubricant when allowed time to dry fully (10-15 minutes) prior to use. If not given time to dry prior to combining with a lubricant, the product may transfer to another partner.

is stay safe to ingest?

Stay is not a food grade product, and given the local anesthetic ingredients in the product, it should not be ingested. If applied properly (allowed time to dry and excess wiped away), oral sex should be completely safe.

what if stay doesn't work for me?

If still experiencing premature ejaculation with stay, discontinue use and consult a doctor. It is possible that PE may be a result of an underlying medical condition.

what makes stay different than its competitors?

While stay is very similar to other lidocaine sprays, lidocaine is typically more effective than benzocaine topicals, and is less likely to cause sensitization or allergic response.

Stay contains 375+ sprays per 1 fl. oz bottle (100+ uses) making it a sustainable alternative to single-use wipes. A bottle of stay is TSA-compliant, and will last longer than competing delay sprays.

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  • Jon
    I do not recommend this product
    Rated 1 out of 5 stars
    4 months ago
    1 Star

    No matter the number of sprays (1-10), desensitized everything including the ED prescription and did not prolong performance

  • Shybutchi
    Verified Reviewer
    I recommend this product
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    5 months ago
    Absolutely obsessed

    Obsessed is to say the least! This product is so effective and doesn’t irritate at all (extremely sensitive) 10/10

  • Natalie
    Verified Reviewer
    I recommend this product
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    5 months ago
    Love!

    This product is great. You can spray it on during kissy time & then it actually helps. Usually, I don't trust these products because it makes my down there feel weird, but I always trust Maude & it does the trick!

  • April W.
    Verified Reviewer
    I recommend this product
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    5 months ago
    love it!

    I absolutely love Maude as a company and always look forward to trying their latest launches. The new Stay - desensitizing spray is a great little boost for prolonging intimacy. I tend to be very sensitive and this did not irritate me or my partner. This is a great compliment to our routine that I recommend to make sex even more enjoyable for you and your partner.

  • HollyL
    Verified Reviewer
    I recommend this product
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    5 months ago
    Extends the play

    I received Stay complimentary from maude in exchange for my honest review. Stay is perfectly sized for home or in a travel bag. It works incredibly well to subtly desensitize and help extend pleasure with my partner. We have used it several times and noticed a longer duration of our sessions when we used Stay versus without. I would recommend this!

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